2006年03月 19-4 變與不變之間:曾遭遇亂倫經驗的成年女性談母女關係

簡美華 管貴貞
中正大學犯罪防治系 景文技術學院通識教育中心

任何母女相處經驗,都可能包含喜悅與衝突的。然而,以往的實證研究,僅專注於亂倫受害者對非施虐母親的負向感受,而忽略了母女關係中,所獲得正向感受和經驗,可能對受害女性的社會生活適應有所助益。因此,本研究的目的,在深入瞭解兒童時期曾遭遇亂倫經驗的成年女性,如何詮釋影響其與非施虐母親關係之變與不變。採「生命史探究法」,以立意選樣方式,選取4 位曾接受勵馨基金會諮商的女性進行深度訪談。訪談資料形成二個重要類屬:母女關係不變的特性及影響母女關係轉變的要素。也針對研究結果及相關的實證研究結果,進行深入討論,並逐一列舉本研究所面臨的限制,和提供具體的建議,以做為未來實務工作及研究方向之參考。

關鍵字
母女關係、亂倫、關係的自我理論

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