2014年08月 40-2 青少年婚暴子女分離個體化發展及其所知覺之家庭結構

吳東彥 林繼偉
衛生福利部中區兒童之家 國立東華大學諮商與臨床心理學系

本文旨在從目睹父母親婚姻暴力之青少年的觀點來探討婚暴家庭的家庭結構，以及青少年婚暴子女分離個體化的發展主題與內涵。研究者採用現象學方法進行資料分析。研究結果發現婚暴子女對家庭成員投以大量的關注與涉入。為了阻止和調解衝突，子女們時常忽略自身需求。長期的心理負荷趨使他們離開；同時，他們又因感情牽繫或照顧責任，不時萌生返家的念頭以求安心。由於目睹婚暴是個相當沉重的經驗，為了避免重蹈覆轍，他們試圖發展出與父母親不同的性格與行為，抗拒承襲現狀。也有受訪者長期目睹父母間的婚暴力，而養成自己支持弱勢的傾向。另一個重要現象則是子女們在人我關係中的矛盾。一方面他們被家庭經驗所催化早熟獨立，另一方面卻仍有依賴和親密的需求，但礙於缺乏信任而僅能與人維持表淺關係。最後，根據研究的歷程與結果，研究者提出個人省思與相關建議。

關鍵字
分離個體化、青少年、家庭結構、家暴、婚暴

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