2000年12月 8-4 父母爭吵時的三角關係運作與兒童行爲問題之相關研究

張虹雯 郭麗安
國立彰化師範大學輔導學系 國立彰化師範大學輔導學系
 
本研究主要以家族系統理論學者Bowen所提之「三角關係」概念為理論依據,試圖了解兒童涉入父母爭吵時的三角關係與其行為問題間的關連性,並探討性別與出生序等變項的影響。本研究共抽樣526位有效樣本,並依據受試樣本在研究者自編的「父母爭吵時的三角關係運作量表」以及「兒童行為檢核表」的得分,進行統計分析,得到下列的結果: 1. 男女童在父母爭吵時成為代罪羔羊的程度有顯著差異存在,且男童比女童容易成為代罪羔羊﹔而在跨世代聯盟與親職化的得分則無性別上的差異。男女童在內化行為問題上的差異未達顯著差異水準﹔而在外化行為與全行為問題兩個向度上皆達到顯著差異水準,且男童比女童出現有較高的外化行為與全行為問題。2. 不同出生序兒童在跨世代聯盟上的差異達到顯著水準,且在事後考驗中發現老么在跨世代聯盟上的情形顯著高於老大﹔不同出生序兒童在代罪羔羊與親職化向度上的差異則未達到顯著水準。不同出生序兒童在內化行為、外化行為與全行為問題上的表現沒有差異。3. 代罪羔羊與親職化分別與兒童行為問題呈顯著正相關與負相闕,跨世代聯盟與兒童行為問題之間則無顯著相關。4. 親職化與代罪羔羊可有效預測女童的內化、外化與全行為問題,以及男童的外化與全行為問題﹔親職化可有效預測男童的內化行為問題。但親職化與代罪羔羊的預測方向不同,親職化愈高的小孩,行為問題的發生率愈低,而代罪羔羊的程度愈高,行為問題的發生率也就愈高。跨世代聯盟則無法預測男女童的行為問題。

關鍵字
三角關係、代罪羔羊、兒童行為問題、家庭系統理論、跨世代聯盟、親職化

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